I was eleven or twelve, and we had been best mates for years, spending any free moment together – playing, talking, arguing – and like any childhood friends we were sure our friendship would last forever. So when the question of God was debated in class and we disagreed and argued, I didn’t think much of it, and when the bell rang, I ran straight out to play with him, like always, putting our differences behind. But he would neither speak to me nor look at me, the heretic, and the rest of my school days were never the same again.
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- 08/06/2008 @ 15:48:47
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- 08/06/2008 @ 17:39:29
I am well, thanks for tagging me. And what does it mean in practice?
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- 11/06/2008 @ 01:01:54
Tag - like in a game of tag...if you check my blog, you'll see there are questions, which you copy and answer on your own blog!
I'm glad to hear you are well!
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- 08/06/2008 @ 16:16:16
Children tend to take such things seriously, and I imagine you are a fearsome debater, even at 12

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- 08/06/2008 @ 17:40:42
Lots of adults seem not to mature, and still take these things seriously throughout their lives.
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- 09/06/2008 @ 07:28:23
My son came home from school when he was 4 and announced that everybody in his school thought god was real except for one person, and did I know who that person was?
He has always had a mind of his own.
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- 09/06/2008 @ 09:26:58
good starting point

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- 09/06/2008 @ 09:49:31
He was also the only kid who didn't want to play with Ninja turtles

Can't think where he got his bloody mindedness from
(That from his father, and his incisive, rational, intelligence from me, I suppose).
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- 09/06/2008 @ 10:59:44
This was a lovely, touching post Ranfuchs.
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- 10/06/2008 @ 23:54:18
I'm trying to change my writing style. I am glad you liked it
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- 09/06/2008 @ 16:58:31
Oh no
sometimes people get kind of over serious in debate things at school
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- 11/06/2008 @ 00:10:10
it's no different when you are out of school
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- 11/06/2008 @ 10:51:35
I've never been able to understand why religion and politics devides people. I dont see why we cant be friends with those who have opposing views, I dont know my neighbours relious or political views, and nor would it make a difference if i did. each to their own I say, live and let live, but most of all, everyone live in harmony together.
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- 11/06/2008 @ 23:03:39
So you managed to stay friends with them out of ignorance, because you didn't know their views? If you knew their view and they were completely contradictory to yours, could you still remain friends?
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- 12/06/2008 @ 08:06:18
When I got married my best man was a local counciler for a political party that isnt the party i would choose to vote for, i also have muslim and catholic friends, though i folow neither of these religions. it never interferes with our friendship.
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- 14/06/2008 @ 17:38:36
How do you explain that it does interfere with so many people ?
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- 16/06/2008 @ 09:36:59
religion stirs up too much shit.
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- 17/06/2008 @ 09:31:13
but non religion (asy Communits Russia)stirred just as much
kaliyugashaktimama
Pro
People do tend to take their traditions very seriously.

Sorry that it lost a friendship at such a tender age - it has happened to me too.
Ranfuchs, I tagged you.
Hope you are well